做人很辛苦

I remembered a lesson when shifu say: if u nv feel the hardship in being a man, it is very difficult to attain enlightenment. I personally feel that being a 人　is really hard but at least at the same time you have try to accept what had happened and really learn to let go. However, its easy to say but difficult to achieve.

Being your true self is one way to see things clearly, at least when people see that the way you behave is incorrect, they can point to you and you can change internally and not just the external. However, at times, people always say “this is me” and do not wish to change. If you dont change, u will affect those people around you in many ways. At the same time, you cannot always change to accomodate others too much. If you do that, you will lose your true self.

Everything must have a balance. You cannot be too timid and you cannot be too courageous. You cannot be too BO chap and you cannot be too over-processive. You cannot be too good and you cannot be too bad. Whatever it is everything must have a balance. Just like karma, what you had done bad in the past will come back.

 Family,siblings, friends and your love ones also form a unknown pressure pressing you down as you grow older. Work or study pressure and many more. But you have to learn how to overcome them and proceed on. Normal fortune teller when see my ba zi will say I got 和尚命 but shi fu say I might not be. But come to think of that, being a monk might not be a bad idea, no pressure at all and can concentrate on my cultivation but at least the responsibility for my parents until they are gone must be fulfiled first.

做人真的很辛苦

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